ABOUT Alex Kile
Iâm a postpartum mental health expert and nurse practitioner helping new moms feel like themselves again using a real-world blend of holistic tools and evidence-based medicine.
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My Story
I went to George Washington University for nursing school and earned my masterâs degree from NYU to become a Nurse Practitioner. After over a decade in womenâs healthâincluding time in a high-acuity labor and delivery unit at NYPâI thought I understood what the postpartum period would be like. Iâd spent years counseling women through pregnancy, birth, and recovery, so when I became pregnant with my son, I expected to feel prepared.
But life had other plans.
During my pregnancy, my father passed away from pancreatic cancer. The grief was heavy, and the stress took a toll on both my mind and body. My pregnancy was complicated, and my deliveryâdespite all my medical experienceâwas traumatic in ways I never imagined.
Still, I held it together. Maternity leave gave me space to bond, rest, and settle into new motherhood.
But when I returned to work, everything shifted.
I was overwhelmed by crippling postpartum anxiety, intrusive thoughts, and an intense fear that something terrible would happen. I couldnât sleep, even when my baby was sound asleep. I was afraid to be alone with him. I felt ashamed, confused, and broken. How could someone like meâa womenâs health expertâbe falling apart like this?
The truth is: I wasnât alone.
đĄ 1 in 5 women experience a perinatal mood or anxiety disorder (PMAD).
đĄ Postpartum anxiety is just as common as postpartum depression, yet it's talked about far lessâand treated even less often.
For me, healing began when I realized I couldnât white-knuckle it or âself-careâ my way out. I needed real support. That included starting Zoloft, an SSRI thatâs been well-studied for use during pregnancy and postpartum. It gave me the space to breathe and begin doing the deeper work: therapy, nervous system regulation, gut healing, and daily practices to feel like me again.
That experience completely changed how I approach care. I believe in holistic postpartum support that integrates nutrition, lifestyle, and mindfulnessâwith evidence-based medical options like medication when needed. This is not one-size-fits-all care. Iâm here to give you clear, compassionate guidance so you can make informed, empowered decisions about your mental health and recovery.
Eventually, I found my footing. I started showing up for myself the way I wanted to show up for my son. I made space for sunlight, movement, nourishing food, therapy, and rest. I stopped chasing quick fixes and started healing from the inside out.
Everything I now teach and guide my clients throughâIâve lived it. And I know firsthand that the path back to yourself isnât always easy, but it is possible.
Thatâs why I stepped away from traditional medicine and founded a space for postpartum wellness and mental health support. A space where women feel seen, heard, and truly supportedânot rushed through a 6-week checkup and sent on their way.
If youâre exhausted, anxious, or overwhelmed after having a babyâI see you. Youâre not broken, and youâre not alone.
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 But Then Everything Changed...
The low point came when I was overwhelmed with postpartum anxiety. I couldnât shake the constant worry and intrusive thoughts, and I felt disconnected from my son. The fear was paralyzing, and I was ashamed. As a healthcare professional, I should have known better. But despite my training and experience, I felt like I was falling apartâand I didnât know how to fix it.
The turning point happened when I decided to take action. It wasnât about fixing everything all at onceâit was about speaking up and allowing myself to be vulnerable. I reached out to my therapist, and in that moment, I felt something I hadnât in months: I felt seen. She didnât make me feel like a failure or a monster. She heard me, understood my pain, and helped me navigate my overwhelming emotions. For the first time, I realized I didnât have to carry the burden alone.
Taking actionânot hiding behind pride or shameâwas my catalyst for change. Along with therapy, I made the decision to start Zoloft, an SSRI that helped me regain the emotional stability I needed to start doing the deeper work of healing. I also began healing my gut health, as I knew how interconnected our digestion and mental health can be. I focused on meditation and nervous system regulation, and started prioritizing things that grounded me: sunlight, movement, rest, and nourishing my body. It wasnât easy, but little by little, I was able to rebuild myself.
Things around me changed for the better. I became a better mother, partner, and advocate for myself. I stopped pretending I was okay when I wasnât, and started showing up for myself the way I wanted to show up for my son. I learned that healing doesnât happen overnight, but with support, it is possible.
Today, I live a life where I feel connected, peaceful, and empowered. I want every woman to know that no matter how low you feel, there is a way back. You donât have to do it alone, and you donât have to be perfect. You are enough, and you are worth the journey.